Most people who sit down across from me are waiting for something. The right investment. The right moment to start. The point where things settle down enough to begin properly.
I understand it. In your twenties and thirties, more pressing things come first, like building a career, starting a family, buying a home. Retirement belongs to a much older version of yourself, and there's always something more urgent this month.
The difficulty is that time is the one thing you can't go back and recover. Every year you wait is a year your money didn't have to work, and compounding only rewards the years you actually gave it.
Things also rarely settle down. That's just what life looks like. The imperfect contribution you start this month will almost always do more for you than the perfect one you keep postponing.
There's a pattern I see in many of my clients. As their income increases, so does their lifestyle. A better car, a bigger bond, a bit more on the card. The increase disappears into the month, and a year later they're earning meaningfully more and saving exactly the same.
A higher income creates more comfort. It doesn't automatically create security.
What I'd rather see is each increase adding a habit instead of an expense. Your income improves, so your contribution improves with it, and then it stays improved. That's how people who never earn spectacularly end up in a strong position, and how people who earn very well sometimes end up in a weak one.
It starts with knowing what comes in and where it goes, because you can't build a foundation you've never looked at. From there, it stacks. Clear the debt that didn't need to happen. Put a real buffer in place. Cover the risks you couldn't absorb yourself. Then invest consistently and keep doing it. None of that is exciting. Everything else rests on it.
Everything in a financial plan rest on something people rarely think of as an asset. And that is your ability to keep earning. The investments, the contributions, and the plan itself all live on the assumption that you will always be able to earn an income. Protecting that capacity matters more than optimising anything else.
So before any investment, I'd want money genuinely set aside for emergencies. Not access to credit. A credit card or an overdraft isn't the same thing as a fund that exists for exactly that purpose, and confusing the two is one of the most common mistakes I see.
The families I've worked with who have a real buffer still get the retrenchment and the bill nobody saw coming. The difference is what it costs them. For them it's a speed bump. Without one, the same event means borrowing expensively, or breaking into an investment meant for something else entirely, and losing years of progress in a fortnight. The same logic covers the risks you genuinely couldn't absorb on your own.
Business owners are often the most exposed here, and I say that having been one. You spend years putting everything back into the business because that's where the growth is, and the person doing all the building can end up with nothing set aside for themselves.
I ran my own business for 11 years, and it taught me that plans don't survive contact with real life. There's no guaranteed salary at the end of the month. There were good months and hard ones, and sometimes I had to adjust quickly to things entirely outside my control.
People's financial lives work the same way. Income changes. Expenses arrive without invitation. There will be years when you can contribute more and years when you can't, and the strategy that suits you at 30 may not suit you at 55.
Changing the plan doesn't mean it failed. It means your plan has to stay relevant to the life you're actually living.
Markets are where this gets tested hardest. When they fall, the instinct is to do something, and it's exactly the instinct I used to see in players after a bad contest. They'd want to change the grip, the stance, the whole approach, starting Monday. Sometimes something genuinely does need to change. Your decisions should come from your circumstances and where you're trying to get to, rather than from what happened last week.
Retirement planning is not one decision made once. Income tax, risk cover, investments, retirement funds, and what you eventually leave behind all pull on each other, and a change to one moves the others. It's the relationship between every part of your life that involves money, and it needs revisiting as those parts change.
The most useful thing anyone can ask their adviser is simply, why? Why this investment? Why this level of cover? Why does this make sense for me specifically, rather than for somebody else? And say "I don't understand, please explain that to me" as often as you need to.
I'll be honest about my own profession. Financial planning can become very product- and sales-focused, and the line gets crossed when the focus lands more on the sale than on the person across the table. Coaching taught me the alternative. An athlete has to trust that their coach is acting in their interests, especially on the days when the training doesn't seem to be working. I don't see my job as telling somebody what to do. I explain the options, the risks and the consequences, and help them decide.
If it's important to you, you'll find a way. If not, you'll find an excuse. I've held that belief for a long time, and I still believe it. Start from where you are, work out what you're aiming at, and keep doing the small, unremarkable things for long enough that they count.
That's the long game. Same as it was in the training hall.
By Gideon Glass, Financial Planner at GIB